The film of Joy Luck Club
The Joy
Luck Club shows us that what the mother love is, when I finished
reading, I noticed that mother love doesn't just mean mother gives everything
what we need, but also includes mother's advises and reproach. We need
understand them. Between mothers and daughters, there isn't just mother love,
also have daughter's love. Why I like this book, because this book makes me
know that. As a daughter, I should pay more attention to my mother, she is
becoming older and older, I should take care of her, make her happy and let her
proud of me.
In The Joy Luck Club, Lindo is my
favorite character.
Lindo is a over-confident person in the story,
she was showing off about her daughter all the time. But, she had horrible
experiences in China when she was a little girl. Sha had to marry a man who she
didn't know when she was 15. She had to listen to her mother, also the marriage
made by the matchmaker. Then she had to keep her promise for her mother and
family, also she had to think about herself, because her mother-in-law treat
her poorly. She had to think about how can she deal with her life. So, the plan
came out which about jumping out of this terrible marriage. Finally,
Huang-tai-tai got grandson, the servant girl got marriage, she got freedom.
At the first paragraph of the story tells us
the theme of the density of Lindo. She said that her life is just for her
parents. She doesn't have any choice about her life, that's all because she
live in China that day. There is the most different point between America and
China. All of us know that the American always be a separate individual life in
the world. And the American nation is the nation which thinks the individual is
the most important character for the people, they do their lives for
theirselves. And nobody can change this opinion. So they really can't realize
Chinese people, including why their lives for their parents or families. Why the
most important density of the Chinese is controlled by other people. Why they
have no choice about their own happiness. It is the most different between
American culture and Chinese culture. However, it is the truth in China. There
are a lot of Chinese children meet this question, their life just for their
family, their weddings always have no choice for themselves, it always be
linked in rights, power, money or business. So you can meet a lot of
unhappiness weddings in China that period.
There are too many symbols in China. Such as
the most popular place is Beijing, cause Beijing is the capital city and there
are full of power and rights. even today, too many Chinese want to live or work
in Beijing. And the other one is the gold, she sad her rings is the 24 golden,
the yellow gold always be the power and money in ancient and modern China. And
their is a classical sentence in China that is the girl likes the water that be
pulled. A majority of Chinese in that period all believe this sentence is the
truth. And she said she didn't meet her husband when she was 8 or 9 years old.
A part of ladies in China just like her, they didn't know their husbands until
they married.
People don't have their own spaces in a
family. 20 people live in a house, they are family, so they do have no choice
to live together. There are a lot of classical Chinese culture in that period,
when we read this book, we do feel the differences between Chinese culture and
American culture. The family and individual have many differences.
Otherwise, in the movie, we can see
something really happen poorly for her, such as her mother-in-law treat her
really poorly, she was in that family as a servant. Then she got the plan which
is a lie for the whole Huang family, she told them that she saw the ancestor of
Huang. Luckily, they believed her then let her go. We can see that she was so
smart, she didn't lose the personality of a young girl, this is the reason I
liked about the movie. Because when I read this part at the first time, I was
so confused about that, because I didn't understand it, I can not image that a
young girl can play such a big a joke for Huang-tai-tai. Because when she was
in the book, it is pretty hard to understand how she did that, while she was
playing this, I can understand it perfectly. I also can see that she was so
smart in the movie, I can feel it. About the movie, I liked it pretty much. I
think movie is more interesting, because Lindo has strong mind and she wants to
control everything. Just like she wanted to control her daughter Wavely. These
kind of issues, it is hard to be seen in the book, I am really poor at
imagination. So I prefer to watch the movie than to read the book. Actually I
think it is a challenge for me to understand her. First of all, I was so shame
about this mother who is showing off her daughter all the time. Secondly, I
understand that she had really tough time in China, she had to do the things
that her parents told her. Thirdly, she love her daughter so much, just like
every mother like their own daughters, this is a kind of nature skill for a
mother. It doesn't need to be trained.
In my opinion, the theme about Lindo is
talking about the mother whenever or whatever doesn't matter with how tough she
is. In the movie, I could see her listen to her mother everything, never go the
opposite way from her mother. I really think she was a good girl for the
family. When she got older, she treat her daughter toughly, she just had one
wish which is keep the promise for the parents. She loves her daughter in
Chinese way. But Wavely grew up in the USA, that's the reason that she didn't
understand why Lindo did something. Such as to be serious for Wavely's husband
or boyfriend. It is just about the different culture. I still think Lindo is a
really good mother.
I would recommend this story for you, because it really teaches me something, that I can not really learn
from my age. Because, these are the things that we have to take our time slowly
to understand it. Absolutely, I need to learn how to be nice to my mother. I
will try to understand her as well. I feel that if both of us, my mother and I
read this book, we will make a really good connection. That's all my thoughts
from The Joy Luck Club.